Wednesday, July 28, 2004

what makes a good husband?? is he someone that has no bad habits? for example; smoking, drinking, gambling? no tattoos? don't use dialect vulgarities? rich & stable, having the 5Cs which ALL (sorry no offense) girls wants? enough cash to sponser the girl everything she needs, have a good sense of dressing, forever giving in to her? & so on... or would she prefer someone that has only a true sincere heart to offer? minus all the assets & liabilities, is she gonna go for him or the Mr. Perfect? when the connection of a guy & girl occurs. when the guy is giving up everything just to go for her. when he knows himself that he has lost pride, dignity just to make her happy although what he lost is not as worth as what he got, meaning, the girl's smile & gratitude. what boils down is, what does he look in her, vice versa. Are relationships built on the HUGE DOLLAR SIGN? when $ can satisfy her? what about love which starts everything from sratch? is $ gonna take over love? will anyone ever be contented with what they have? is it gonna end up with this same sentence: "everyday eat fish, not sian ah? sometimes must eat chicken, beef all this." are we serious here? all of us wants our freedom of movement & action, however, this comes with a responsibility that no one can shoulder. when somone says "i know what i'm doing", 95% mostly not know wtf they are actually doing. as long on the surface, it looks gd & neat. fuck the rest, don't have to think too much. is JR right? why wanna entagle yourself in situations that just complicates things? sigh. i dont wanna continue typing no more. its 5am. time for me to sleep... oh yeah, good morning to those who in the process of waking up & having sweet dreams... nighty nites.

posted by Jeremy Ryan @ 4:36 AM